我身高1米7体重还不到100斤,因为瘦弱经常被别人欺负,自卑感越来越强,我该怎么办,

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瘦弱就健身,早上出去运动一下,平时多交一些朋友,当你朋友多,跟他们关系好的时候,我想那些想要欺负你的人,可能会有所顾虑。
我觉得你被欺负,跟体重的关系可能不是很大,更大是人际关系,如果你表现出一副我很好欺负,我被欺负了也不还手的样子,人家可能就欺负你。
要学会对欺负你的人说不,学会保护自己,比如人家想把墨水倒在你椅子上,你可以瞪他一眼:你可以试试看,我会依葫芦画瓢,也给你来一份,眼神要有一定的杀伤力。
但不一定要真的去报复,他伤害你,是他在做坏事,你不要跟他一般见识,不要去想着报复,如果你去报复,你和他有什么区别?
你需要的是学会保护自己。
人家欺负你,我觉得没必要自卑,他欺负你不代表你不好,而是他可能眼拙没发现你的好,以及他在表现自己的道德败坏。
有什么好自卑的,我以前全班欺负我,被扫把打,被推下楼梯,我觉得我很好,是他们不好,我努力过好自己的日子,我努力去交朋友,当我的你好朋友多了,彼此团结,一般没人欺负我了,我想他是不敢。
我也不瘦弱,以前却被人欺负。
有些人他可能就是觉得伤害别人,这样显得他自己特别高贵,却不知这是在改变自己的命运,做坏事会有恶报的。
自信起来,你没什么可以自卑的理由,不就是瘦点,那就给自己加餐,每天除了固定三餐饭,再给自己家一些水果做零食,早起早睡,早上去锻炼一下。
还可以从兴趣爱好出发,比如你喜欢画画,谁也喜欢,可以去跟她交流你们共同的兴趣爱好,可能就会成为朋友,比如你可以拿你的画去找她,跟她说:听说你也喜欢画画,这是我画的,你可以指导我一下吗?帮我看看哪儿不好?
接触一下,可能就成朋友了。
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第1个回答  2013-10-02
健身,学点音乐,放心,过一阵子 也许很久 曾经欺负你的人会后悔的。
第2个回答  2013-10-02
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第3个回答  2013-10-02
锻炼 欺负你怕什么?不行就报警