became a searcher,wanting to find out who I was and what made me unique. My view of myself was changing. I wanted a solid base to start from. I started to resist3 pressure to act in ways that I didn’t like any more,and I was delighted by who I really was. I came to feel much more sure that no one can ever take my place.
Each of us holds a unique place in the world. You are special,no matter what others say or what you may think. So forget about being replaced. You can’t be.
我成了一个探寻者,想要知道自己到底是谁,又是什么让我变得独一无二.我的人生观开始改变.我需要一个坚固的基础来发展,我忍受住压力,不再做自己不喜欢做的事.而且我为真实的我感到高兴.渐渐地我越发肯定自己无可替代.
每个人在这个世界上都占有一个独一无二的位置.无论别人说什么,你自己怎么想,你都是特别的.所以,不要担心自己会被取代,因为你永远是惟一的.
Just as you need air to breathe, you need opportunity to succeed. It takes more than just breathing in the fresh air of opportunity, however. You must make use of that opportunity. That's not up to the opportunity. That's up to you. It doesn't matter what "floor" the opportunity is on. What matters is what you do with it. 正如你需要空气来呼吸,你也需要机遇来获得成功.但是只吸进机遇的新鲜空气远远不够.你必须好好利用机遇.这并不取决于机遇本身,而是由你自己决定.你在什么时候得到机遇并不重要.重要的是你怎样把握机遇.
1.A bad workman always blames his tools. 拙匠总怪工具差。
2.A contented mind is a perpetual feast. 知足长乐。
3.A good beginning is half the battle. 好的开端等于成功一半。
4.A little pot is soon hot. 壶小易热，量小易怒。
5.All lay loads on a willing horse. 好马重负。
6.A merry heart goes all the way. 心情愉快，万事顺利 。
7.Bad excuses are worse than none. 狡辩比不辩护还糟 。
8.Character is the first and last word in the success circle.人的品格是事业成功的先决条件。
9.Cleanliness is next to godliness. 整洁近于美德 。
10.Courtesy costs nothing. 彬彬有礼，惠而不费 。
11.Doing nothing is doing ill. 无所事事，必干坏事。
12.Early to bed, early to rise, make a man healthy, wealthy, and wise.睡得早，起得早，聪明、富裕、身体好 。
13.Empty vessels make the most noise. 满瓶子不响，半瓶子晃荡 。
14.Every man hath his weak side. 人皆有弱点 。
15.Everything ought to be beautiful in a human being: face, dress, soul and idea.人的一切都应当是美丽的：容貌、衣着、心灵和思想。
16.Extremes are dangerous. 凡事走向极端是危险的 。
17.Good advice is harsh to the ear. 忠言逆耳 。
18.Grasp all, lose all. 欲尽得，必尽失 。
19.Great hopes make great men. 伟大的理想造就伟大的人物。
20.Handsome is he who does handsomely. 行为美者才真美。
21.Have but few friends, though many acquaintances. 结交可广，知己宜少。
22.Hear all parties.兼听则明，偏听则暗 。
23.He is a wise man who speaks little. 智者寡言。
24.He is not laughed at that laughs at himself first.有自知之明者被人尊敬。
25.He is rich enough that wants nothing.无欲者最富有，贪欲者最贫穷。
26.He is truly happy who makes others happy.使他人幸福的人，是真正的幸福。
27.Honesty is the best policy. 诚实乃上策。
28.Hope for the best and prepare for the worst.?? 抱最好的希望，作最坏的准备 。
29.Idleness is the root of all evil. 懒惰是万恶之源 。
30.If we dream, everything is possible. 敢于梦想，一切都将成为可能。
31.Kind hearts are the gardens, kind thoughts are the roots, kind words are flowers and kind deeds are the fruits.仁慈的心田是花园，崇高的思想是根茎，友善的言语是花朵，良好的行为是果实。
32.Laugh, and the world laughs with you; Weep, and you weep lone.欢笑，整个世界伴你欢笑。哭泣，只有你独自向隅而泣 。
33.Life is measured by thought and action not by time.
衡量生命的尺度是思想和行为，而不是时间。
34.Life is not all beer and skittles. 人生并非尽是乐事 。
35.Long absent, soon forgotten. 别久情疏 。
36.Look before you leap. 三思而后行 。
37.Lookers-on see most of the game. 旁观者清，当局者迷。
38.Manners make the man.观其待人而知其人 。
39.Misfortune tests the sincerity of friends. 患难识知交。
40.No cross, no crown.没有苦难，就没有快乐 。
41.Nobody's enemy but his own. 自寻苦恼 。
42.One man's fault is another man's lesson. 前车之覆，后车之鉴 。
43.Pardon all men, but never thyself. 严以律已，宽以待人。
44.Reason is the guide and light of life. 理智是人生的灯塔 。
45.Sadness and gladness succeed one another. 乐极生悲，苦尽甘来 。
46.Still waters run deep.流静水深，人静心深 。
47.The fire is the test of gold; adversity of strong men. 烈火炼真金，逆境炼壮士 。
48.The fox may grow grey, but never good. 江山易改，本性难移 。
49.The more a man learns, the more he sees his ignorance. 知识越广博，越感已无知 。
50.Virtue is a jewel of great price. 美德是无价之宝 。
51.Weak things united become strong. 一根筷子易折断，十根筷子硬如铁 。
52.We can't judge a person by what he says but by what he does.判断一个人，不听言语看行动 。
53.Where there is a will there is a way. 有志者，事竟成 。
54.Will is power. 意志就是力量 。
55.Wise men are silent; fools talk. 智者沉默寡言，愚者滔滔不绝 。
56.Wise men learn by others' harm, fools by their own.智者以他人挫折为鉴，愚者必自身碰壁方知觉。
Have you ever been around someone who immediately put you at ease? Perhaps you may be one of those people who others feel safe around.
有没有遇到过那么个人，只要他/她在你身边，你立即就觉得安心？或许你就是让别人觉得安心的那么一个人。
What is the common thread in people who emanate warmth? Some may think it is related to personality or physical appearance. But this does little to explain why bright beacons of light can be found anywhere. Essence has nothing to do with our exterior.
那些气场中自带温暖的人有哪些共性呢？一些人也许认为这与性格或外貌有关。但这基本解释不了为什么明亮的灯塔之光四处可见。本质与我们的外在无关。
I like to believe the common thread is a universal trait we are all able to tap into. When we see the truth of who we are and wholeheartedly love every part of that truth, we automatically shine. When we embrace our essence and live in congruence with who we are, we radiate peace.
我愿意相信这个共性是我们都能够触及的、普遍存在的品质。当我们欣赏自己的本质并全心全意热爱着这一切的时候，我们自然而然就会出类拔萃。当我们欣然接受自己的本质并遵循本心来生活的时候，我们会自带平和的光环。
Every day we can choose to wake up and see the gift of getting to be who we are. When we decide to live from this way of "being," it becomes easy to see this same light and gift in everyone — even those who may not yet see it in themselves.
每一天，我们都可以选择一醒来就欣赏做自己这一项天赋。当我们决定以“本性”来生活的时候，在每个人身上，甚至是那些可能还没有开始欣赏自身本性的人身上，我们变得很容易就能看到同样的光芒和天赋了。
The benefits of self-love are many. What I know to be true without a doubt in my heart, is that we are all capable of giving this gift to ourselves.
自爱的益处有很多。我所知道的真相就是，我们都能赋予自己这项天赋，这一点我深信不疑。
These words help me remember why embracing my essence is always the best thing to do. Perhaps this may resonate with where you are.
这些话让我想起欣然接受自己的本质始终是上策的原因。或许这也会与你产生共鸣。
When you love who you are,
当你爱自己的时候，
you become a conduit of light.
你会成为一道光。
Just drop into your heart space,
只需触及心房，
and live life from this view.
并遵循本心来生活。
For all of this doing
做这一切
is not who you are.
无关你是谁。
Listen to your heart’s soft whisper,
聆听内心轻柔的呢喃，
this voice will show you the way.
她会告诉你方法。
Live life from your essence
遵循本性来生活
is what she will say.
她会这样告诉你。
See the light in yourself,
欣赏自身的光芒，
and your world will be bright.
你的世界都会变得明亮。
There is no need to worry,
没必要担心，
you are exactly as you should be;
你正是自己本来的模样；
remember to love who you are,
记得爱自己，
and love you will see.
爱自己欣赏的一切。