We live in this colorful world, experience excessively joyfully, also has excessively sadly, realized in the defeat the world good and bad in life, had found the self-confidence in the success which lets oneself continue to go forward.In the realistic society, the smile is the world most real language, defeat time for oneself a smile, lets oneself understand thoroughly oneself, saw at this time defeat own insufficiency, will avoid in the next time stepping onto a same tortuous path, like this as if each defeat all got up in the life the important role, now is defeated many, later will encounter the defeat which will arrive to be less.Finally we stepped onto one are the strip already experience the wind and frost to discipline, smooth unimpeded main road. Thai merchant Shi Lihua, is in the business circle has trillion property men of the hour.A 1997 financial crisis caused him to go bankrupt, facing the defeat, he only said one: “Good ha! Also might start over from the beginning!”Life, also should so, smile in each defeat, gives the self-confidence which oneself continues to go forward, defeat regarding as is the successful stepping-stone, the academic society hugs successfully, moves towards successfully.In the ordinary not wonderful life, we have come across the setback, when we look side person, perhaps we will feel in the heart gratified.Always does not lack some in our side twisting, they are the successful spokesman, but who behind knew how many setbacks they did live have encountered and the defeat? Therefore defeat however fearful, but has not accepted the defeat ability to be more fearful.A person has not accepted the defeat ability, only saw successful one side, has been able to reduce the self-confidence like this in each defeat, well had not known the defeat to own significance, considers as the defeat own enemy, insists on the personal opinion, finally lost has exercised own opportunity, has become a wrong path person.Sets up a goal to oneself, faces the goal to march forward courageously, in assiduous earnest takes into consideration side wind and rain busily, finally achieves the goal, but we finally can pay for this own come as soon as joyful slightly smiles.“This matter too has been difficult, definitely cannot achieve, that matter by mine ability also is, I or select slightly some do.” This idea finds at everywhere in the side, but we have not actually heard difficult Chinese characters in each successful public figure mouth.In media developed present age, when has a successful public figure facing the significant difficulty, the media always performs to hype, this matter has become the well known topic, however each upper dogs all only smile were replying these did not know how is going reporter who subverts theirs matter.They all place theirs matter finally, greets the world with the smile."War and peace" when author Tolstoi university too is bad because of the result is left school, teacher thinks the brains which he both has not studied, and lacks the study wish.Expresses "Theory of evolution" Darwin decided in the past when the giving up practices medicine, encounters father's reprimanding: “You put the proper matter not to do, by all means goes hunting all day, seizes the dog to seize the mouse.” Moreover, Darwin disclosed in the autobiography that,“In childhood, all teachers and the elders all thought my intelligence is mediocre, with intelligent is cannot touch on slightly.” The Einstein 4 year old of talent can speak, 7 year old of talent can be literate, teacher gives his evaluation is: “The slow reaction, does not get on well with others, full head impractical fantasy.” He once encountered the destiny which left school, when applied for the Su Lishi technology institute also is rejected.These great scientist who makes the contribution for the humanity, the intelligence does not have other human of high since childhood, the mediocre intelligence lets them be doomed in the life to have to encounter more defeats, they grow in the innumerable defeats, corrects the mistake in the innumerable defeats, finally all moved towards the success.Therefore, each defeat has all become huge wealth, we should treasure each defeat, with smiles treasures it, faces it earnestly, careful experiences it, like this, we finally can move towards successfully. Now, we might very proudly send out this calm smile to the life.
中文意思.
我们在这个多姿多彩的世界里生活，经历过快乐，也有过悲伤，在失败中体会到了人世间的酸甜苦辣，在成功里找到让自己继续前进的自信心。现实的社会里，微笑是人间最真实的语言，失败的时候给自己一个微笑，让自己更深入的了解自己，在这次的失败看到自己的不足，在下次避免走上次同样的弯路，这样似乎每一次失败在生活中都起了重要的角色，现在失败得越多，以后所遭遇到的失败就越少。最后我们走上的一是条已经经历过风霜磨练，平坦无阻的大道。 泰国商人施利华，是商界上拥有亿万资产的风云人物。1997年的一次金融危机使他破产了，面对失败，他 只说了一句：“好哇！又可以从头再来了！”生活，也应该如此，在每一次失败中微笑，给予自己继续前进的自信心，把失败看作是成功的垫脚石，学会拥抱成功，走向成功。在平凡无奇的生活中，我们遇到了挫折，当我们望一望身边的人，也许我们就会感到心中的一点欣慰。在我们身边总不缺少一些绞绞者，他们是成功的代表者，但谁又知道他们生活背后又是遭到了多少挫折和失败呢？失败故然可怕，但是没有接受失败的能力就更加可怕了。一个人没有接受失败的能力，只看到了成功的一面，这样在每一次失败中就会降低自信心，没有好好认识失败对自己的意义，把失败看做自己的敌人，执意己见，最终失去了锻炼自己的机会，成了一个迷途的人。向自己树立一个目标，朝着目标勇往直前，在刻苦认真中无暇顾及身边的风雨，最终达到目的，我们最后会为这自己付出而得来的喜悦微微的一笑。“啊，这件事太难了，以我的能力肯定不能做到的，啊那件事也是，我还是挑一些小的来做吧。”这种想法在身边随处可见，但我们却没有在每一个成功的人士口中听到一个难字。在媒体发达的当代，当有一个成功人士面对重大困难时，媒体总是加以炒作，这件事就成了众所周知的话题，然而每一位成功者都只是微笑着回答这些不知道将要怎样将他们的事情颠覆的记者。他们都把他们自己的事放在最后，用微笑去迎接世界。《战争与和平》的作者托尔斯泰大学时因成绩太差而被退学，老师认为他既没读书的头脑，又缺乏学习意愿。发表《进化论》的达尔文当年决定放弃行医时，遭到父亲的斥责：“你放着正经事不干，整天只管打猎、捉狗捉耗子的。”另外，达尔文在自传上透露：“小时候，所有的老师和长辈都认为我资质平庸，和聪明是沾不上边的。”爱因斯坦4岁才会说话，7岁才会认字，老师给他的评语是：“反应迟钝，不合群，满脑袋不切实际的幻想。”他曾遭到退学的命运，在申请苏黎士技术学院时也被拒绝。这些为人类做出贡献的伟大的科学家，从小资质就没有其他人高，平庸的资质让他们在生活中注定要遭到更多的失败，以至于他们在无数失败中成长，在无数失败中纠正错误，最终都走向了成功。所以，每一次失败都成了一笔巨大的财富，我们应该珍惜每一次失败，用微笑去珍惜它，认真面对它，细心的体验它，这样，我们最终就会走向成功。 现在，我们可以很自豪向生活发出这从容的微笑了.
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