that you can keep going long after you think you can’t 你可以继续走下去远超过你所以为的极限 i've learned —— that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place. 我终于了解——不论起初的关系如何热络,热情总会退却,最好有其它的东西可以取代它。