第1个回答 2015-10-07
Some discrepancy phenomenon introductions of our country of educational and western education give all. Family educates form, the discrepancy 1 on concept) the nominal family structure of 3 Chinese acting same halls though have greater change, but the culture that separates acting education exists generally. Now young parents, a lot of because of go abroad , go to sea to go into business or be self cause is busy , hold child to grandfather mother or grandfather mother to look after , have formed in order to separate the tendency mainly with acting family education. 3 generation 1 generation educational general weight raise light religion, besides, the cultural quality of old person is low, ideological to age , so spoil to be more than like , have produced 3 generation wilful, it is pampered, psychological to bear the drawback of ability difference. And in the West, according to our observation for the country of place, entire area nearly looks after the condition of grandson generation without a regular ancestors old person. Our common educational idea that feels western tradition is: Old person does not join religion, child is fostered and educated personally by own parents. In them look , child in childhood get He protect the more future bear ability differ from the more. 2 ) on concept, the importance of family education is known by though more and more families, but domestic many families the mistake understanding " family educates " is " family knowledge education ". Some the head of families arrange child Saturday to study computer , study English and still practice piano Sunday , recite Tang poetry and so on , develop direction blindly for child to seek knowledge and have overlooked the character development of child. Along with the increase of child age, they discover own character needs with the head of family arrange not uniform, wish can not realize , follow Zhi produce countrary turn over psychology, matter with is willing to violate, even cause family tragedy. Some the head of families understand the mistake of " culture " , is "knowledge". Them educational child cannot ether naughty, in school hear the words of teacher, will modestly decline between classmate; And in the West, the head of family lets child select self , likes to do what dry what , does not be to force and be over critical , important guide child institute how surmount difficulty with own strength, how to maintain balance between relying on and selfing support learn survival. So the West see coloured season very less teenager because of one examination suffer a setback to cut wrist suicide, the high schooler who also sees 10 few years very less meets setback, is away from home the condition of runing away. Domestic the head of family most cares for grade and the record of child , is interest in very less as to psychology and ability. What child and the head of family of holding together concern is record and grade. Us this generation that has to recognize home teenagers self support consciousness, psychological quality and the West have obvious gap with acting person. All know one 13 years old European little girl use a vacation person have traveled whole Europe, and in the youth of our China fills in and submits aspiration in examination university , still let the head of family decide special field for him. During examination, it is more that family mobilizes always. Take the green of this year to protect examination see , before the head of family examines , wraps guesthouse , decides rent vehicle , accompanies examination when examining , is spontaneous to stop normal traffic order, forbid have disturb the least bit, after examining , psychology is consulted. If this fragile a acting person how to go to meet world, intense competition. British famous philosophy is domestic with educational home Luo plain in colour consistent view " enforcement free education, advocate to give the freedom of more children , make them learn survival, can develop fully according to own nature ". Compare under, western education is educated than the tradition of our country more scientifically , is more advanced.
第2个回答 2007-10-16
Phenomenon introduces the difference our country is educated with several of west education to everybody. Home education difference on the form , idea (1)In form The culture that China replaces education across although three generation and the hall family structure having bigger changing, is common existence. Young parents , many reason now go abroad , plunge into the commercial sea engaging in business deals or are busy rushing about for self cause, will a child be asked to taken care , taken form the trend giving first place to throwback home education for grandparents or grandparent. First generation has educated third generation to foster light religion in general again , quality has insisted to low , to be fond of therefore thought ageing, being indulgent to Duoyu old people culture of adding , has produced bad malady of self-willed , squeamish , psychological bearing capability of third generation.But, in the west , according to us, to observation , entire area of the location country, none example ancestry old people takes care of grandchild generation condition nearly. That we feel west tradition education concept all commonly is: The old people does not join religion , the child provides for and educates in person by self parents. From their point of view, children breathing out on when one was young protects increasingly much bearing capability with the future getting over difference. (2)Idea is upper The home education significance is educated by the knowledge the home education "mistake is understood for the "family though the more and more many family knows arrive at, but domestic many family". Some parents have arranged learning a computer on Saturday , learning English on Sunday , wanting the exercise piano, to say Tang poetry by heart too and so on for a child , have ignored that child's individuality develops blindly for the child seeks knowledge developing direction. With child age increase, they discover self individuality requiring that the wish can not come true with inconformity laid on by parents, follow that to produce antagonistic psychology , achieve the opposite of what one intended , bring about a family even tragedy. Some parents understand culture "by accident for "knowledge". They educate a child can not to be very naughty, before school listen to teacher's words , be going to modestly decline between the schoolmate; Fault but self is chosen then in the west , parents by the child, be apt what to do what to do right away, force and judge too harshly, important being guides a child to learn how to use self strength to go to overcome difficulty , how between being dependent on and standing on one's own feet, to keep balance , learn to exist. Condition just running away from home therefore west very few the middle school students who see the flower season teenager give ground because of a examination just cutting commit suicide , also very rare more than ten-year-old of wrist comes across a little setback. In the homeland, parents cares for child's achievement , fraction most , seldom concerns with as for mentality , the ability. Holding together parents and child relation is achievement , fraction then. We have to admit this in the homeland standing on one's own feet of generation teen-agers mental consciousness, psychological quality has the obvious gap with the west and acting person. Everybody knows one 13-year-old Europes little girl makes use of vacation one people has traveled entire Europe,But, we want to let parents be that he decides special field too when applying for university filling in a form and reporting aspiration to the leadership Chinese youth. Also be whole family general mobilization during examination. Protect with green this year right away have a test in come to take a look on that, parents has a test in the front parcel guesthouse , accompany when fixing a taxi , having a test in have a test in, obstruct regular traffic order spontaneously , be not allowed to have the psychological consult disturbing , having a test in the queen for the half an hour. How the so fragile generation people goes to welcome the world fierce rivalry. That famous philosopher of United Kingdom and educationist Russel Bertrand advocate "putting free education into practice all along , encourage giving the children more liberty, makes them learn to exist